Where Have All The Young Men Gone: Dr. John Kyle

Where have all the young men gone?

This article first appeared on www.eamonnmallie.com

July 22, 2013Posted in: Opinion

 

 

Many in the educated liberal classes view the Armed Forces with ambivalence.  They are necessary for national security but war is evil and its consequences monstrous.  For working class Loyalists there is no such ambiguity; the Armed forces, that is to say the British Armed Forces, are held in the highest esteem, men and women of courage and conviction who are prepared to lay their lives on the line for our safety and freedom.  Indeed Loyalist families are particularly proud of their young people, predominantly young men, who are serving or have seen active service.

For many young men this is one of the very few employment options open to them, and therein lies a major problem.  Unemployment is particularly damaging to the confidence, morale and self-esteem of young men.  Many have already been given the message by an educational system tailored to the academically able, that they are failures. What now is their purpose in life, what is their role in society?  Have they a place or contribution to make, a responsibility to shoulder?

The responsibility to provide answers should not rest primarily with them.  Those of us who are established in our careers and positions of influence owe it to them to create employment opportunities, affirm their worth and provide role models and friendship.

The recent violence has provoked a further wave of invective towards Loyalists.   Brian John Spencer, in a recent blog on this site, called them ‘backward class, barbarian, curdled by hate, thug merchants, reactionary blockheads, blowhards of the past and street thugs.’ He is not alone in holding these views.  Criticism and condemnation of the violence is justified.  Pejorative labelling does nothing to address the underlying causes, change self perceptions or offer hope of a better future. Indeed it may reinforce negative behaviour.

In an earlier posting Dave Magee wrote persuasively of a crisis in Loyalist masculinity arising from the brutality of 30 years of conflict followed by a social and economic vacuum which offers young men little  in the way of aspiration, opportunity or role models.  It is hardly surprising that some take easily to rioting.  In the words of Bob Dylan ‘when you ain’t got nothing, you got nothing to lose’. Rites of passage such as entering the workforce and learning skills from older men which confer dignity, responsibility and a sense of belonging have largely disappeared.  Is it any wonder young men lack purpose? A bored unemployed underclass is inevitable and drug abuse a frequent consequence offering a cheap chemical high in an otherwise emotionally arid existence.

We owe it to these young men to create the circumstances in which they can develop and use their gifts in constructive and financially remunerative ways and an environment in which confidence, self esteem and self awareness can flourish.

This is essential if we want to give more than lip service to the goal of a just and equal society. Then perhaps some of our most problematic young men, in both communities, will believe that they are important, realise they are talented and discover that kindness and self control are part of being a man.

 

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One Response to Where Have All The Young Men Gone: Dr. John Kyle

  1. John’s article should be posted out to all the dishonest self-righteous politicians and pompous snobs, who constantly attempt to belittle interface Loyalists, from the safety of their own little ivory towers on the Malone Road, the Gold Coast of North Down and the hills of Castlereagh.
    I would like to reinforce it by making it clear that, many Ulster Working Class Family’s have unbroken Generational Family links with the British Forces, not because of unemployment but because it is an ingrained cornerstone of our Loyalist Working Class Culture.
    A massive part of the problem at the present time is that, the natural inbred cultural aspiration of Young Loyalists on the interface’s to serve their Country, is now being denied to many of them.
    In the past 10 years it has gradually became harder and harder for un-academically qualified young people, to gain admission to the armed forces. The positions which would once have been filled by enthusiastic young Working Class Loyalists, are now being taken up by unenthusiastic failed academics who are unable to find employment in their chosen field.
    In the past, failed university students usually plumped for the Ministry( religious or political), now they and the failed computer technicians are unenthusiastically taking the jobs of the Loyalist Working Class.
    I believe that the end result of this madness will in fact, seriously weaken our armed forces in the long run, because as any ex-service man will inform you, in a time of danger, it is a willing Volunteer that you want at your side and back, not a reluctant jobs-worth.
    There is a serious shortage of affordable social housing in Northern Ireland, instead of paying our young people and unemployed building tradespersons to sit in the house, we should be forcing the IRA/DUP Government to create employment and fresh on-site apprentice opportunities, by building social housing all over Northern Ireland.
    Our hospitals are on the point of collapse and totally overburdened, we have thousands of young Working Class girls and boys, who are barred from a career in nursing, yet we are employing thousands of nurses and doctors from all over the world, who have gained their qualifications in countries where very little educational achievement was required. In many cases these nurses and doctors speak very little English.
    Lets end this madness and force the IRA/DUP Government to train up, any of our own young people who have a natural talent and a desire for a career in nursing.
    Lets help end the scourge of drugs and suicide, by giving all the Young Working Class People of Northern Ireland a positive reason for living,